A Simple Question with a Big Impact - Lesson Learned from A 6-Year Old Boy

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It was a busy afternoon in Chennai, I was making my way to the office at a scorching noon around 2 PM. Walking through the expansive North Parade road, I found the merciless sunlight somewhat bearable. After a few strides, I came across a fruit shop near Montfort School, St. Thomas Mount and I decided to savour a bowl of watermelon to quench my thirst and beat the heat.  


I noticed that some of the Kindergarten students were already leaving the school, being picked up by their parents. While munching on the melons, I saw a six-year old boy dressed up in uniform, holding a long pink candy in his hand. 


He seemed deep in thought, his gaze fixed on the stack of candies before him, as if he were reconsidering his choice. Meanwhile, the shop owner who was in a foul mood was yelling at another customer. 


The little boy came close to me and asked in a friendly tone, “Anna, can you put this one back on the stack and get me the yellow candy?” Slowly, taking a bite on the melon, I made up my mind to help him. Before I could act, overhearing the conversation between us, the shop owner stared at us and angrily asked the boy, “What is it with you? What do you want?”

Startled by her sharp tone, the boy hesitated for a moment before gathering the courage to say, “I don’t want this pink candy. Can I please exchange it for the yellow one?”

She shot him a stern look but complied. The boy, now holding his favorite candy, beamed with happiness. 

Here is what made the whole event so interesting. Emboldened with confidence and happiness after receiving the candy, he stared  back at her and enthusiastically asked, “ Saaptingala?” [Have you eaten?] 


His question that came all of a sudden shocked her. Such an unexpected concern from a small boy melted her irritation away. Her demeanor softened, and she broke into a smile. “You’re a smart and witty little boy,” she said, amused. 


Watching this whole event unfold before my eyes, I couldn't just stop wondering at the wisdom of the boy who handled the situation so effortlessly and turned things around in his favor. Somehow, the boy sensed that the lady was upset and showing a little bit of concern would put her at ease. 


Historically, the human mind is engineered to enjoy a state of happiness and blissfulness when the basic needs-food, sleep, and comfort-are met. And probably, we know in our subconscious mind that these are the most essential things to be happy. 


In our culture, ‘Saaptingala’ is more than just a greeting - it’s an expression of care and kindness. Because only a full stomach fosters a happy mind. So, whenever you meet someone next time, remember this little boy’s wisdom, “Saaptingala”. It can go a long way in spreading warmth and compassion.
Location: Chennai, Tamil Nadu, India

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